About have.you — The Free Have You Ever Question Game

have.you started with a simple belief: the best conversations begin with a great question.

We built have.you because we noticed that people often struggle to connect — not because they don't want to, but because they don't know where to start. Have You Ever questions create instant openings for laughter, empathy, and genuine discovery. A single question can change the direction of a dinner, break the ice in a room full of strangers, or help two people find out they have more in common than they realised.

Our Mission

To help people connect through meaningful, fun, and sometimes surprising questions. Whether you're on a first date, at a family reunion, running a team meeting, or just hanging out with friends — have.you gives you the spark you need.

We believe connection should not require a special occasion, a planned activity, or a lot of time. Our format is simple enough to start in seconds and rich enough to run for hours. That balance is what we optimise for in every feature we build.

What We Offer

have.you is a full platform built around the Have You Ever question format. Here is what you get for free:

Questions, tools and packs

• 1,000+ Have You Ever questions across 21 categories - from clean and family-friendly to bold and adult
• Free question tools: random generator, icebreaker generator, question wheel, category mixer, and more
• Custom question packs - curate your own set for any occasion

Play together, safely

• Real-time multiplayer rooms - create a room, share the code, and play with friends online
• Curated question packs for specific occasions: road trips, sleepovers, team events, and more
• Safe mode for family-friendly play, plus age-gated categories for adults

Built With Care

How questions are reviewed

Our publishing workflow adds no more than three new question pages per day. Writing tools may help prepare page copy, but a page can be released only after automated checks validate its substance, metadata, links, markup, and originality. Editors can review and improve the queue at any time. We also moderate language and tone, and our community can flag anything that should not be there.

Who builds it

We are a small team that cares deeply about the product. We use the game ourselves, review player feedback, and keep improving the questions, categories, and tools around the ways people actually play.