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Ideas, Guides & Question Packs

Game night plans, icebreaker guides, deep conversation starters, and tips for sparking better moments with the people you love.

How Shared Secrets Foster Long Term Trust in New Friendships

Discover how opening up about secrets can deepen trust in new friendships and learn thoughtful ways to nurture those connections for the long haul.

May 06, 2026 Read article →

How to Use Low Stakes Quizzes to Improve Departmental Synergy

Learn how fun, low stakes quizzes can break down barriers and strengthen your department’s teamwork. Discover practical ways to boost synergy at work.

May 06, 2026 Read →

Uncovering Grandmas Wildest Youthful Adventures Through Play

Discover Grandma’s untold adventures by turning family time into a playful exploration. Laughter, surprises, and cherished stories await!

May 06, 2026 Read →

The Hidden Psychology of Truth Seeking in Party Games

Discover the fascinating psychology behind truth seeking in party games and why these playful questions can bring people closer together.

May 04, 2026 Read →

Breaking the Ice in Remote Teams Without Making Everyone Cringe

Tired of awkward icebreakers? Learn how to create genuine, non-cringe connections in remote teams with these practical tips and games.

May 04, 2026 Read →

Teaching Kids Empathy Through Relatable Have You Ever Scenarios

Explore how 'Have You Ever' scenarios can help children build empathy in a fun, approachable way. Spark meaningful conversations and connections with kids.

May 04, 2026 Read →

Using Gamified Questions to Combat Post Pandemic Social Awkwardness

Feeling awkward after years of social distancing? Gamified question games offer a fun way to reconnect, break the ice, and rebuild confidence with friends or new groups.

May 01, 2026 Read →

Relearning Your Spouse After a Decade of Marriage

After ten years of marriage, your spouse may surprise you in new ways. Discover how to reconnect and rediscover each other with playful curiosity and intention.

May 01, 2026 Read →

Questions to Ask Your Parents Before Their Stories are Lost

Preserve your family history by asking your parents the right questions. These prompts help capture their stories before they're lost forever.

May 01, 2026 Read →

Why We Feel the Need to Compare Our Life Milestones to Others

Ever wondered why you compare your achievements to others? Explore the psychology behind this habit and how to embrace your unique journey.

Apr 29, 2026 Read →

Why Playing Have You Ever is Better Than a Standard Interview Date

Tired of awkward interview-style dates? Discover why playing Have You Ever creates better connections and more memorable moments when meeting someone new.

Apr 29, 2026 Read →

Bridging the Generational Gap at the Next Family Reunion

Want everyone to feel included at your next family reunion? Discover fun ways to bridge the generational gap and create memories together.

Apr 29, 2026 Read →

More Than Just a Game

The have.you blog covers everything around the game - how to host a better game night, which categories work for different groups, and how a single question can change a conversation.

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Game Night Ideas

Ready-made plans for hosting with friends, family, or coworkers.

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Icebreaker Guides

The best Have You Ever questions for meeting strangers or warming up a quiet group.

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Deep Conversation Starters

How to move past small talk with the right questions at the right time.

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