Have you ever had your height marked on a door frame?

Why people ask this

This question works because the yes-or-no split always surprises the room — someone answers in a way nobody expected, and the conversation starts from there. Families tend to circle the same five anecdotes; this question pries loose the story that was about to be retired forever. On have.you, this question draws players from every kind of setting — parties, road trips, dinners, late-night calls — which is why the same question reads differently every time. The interesting part is rarely the answer itself; it is the follow-up, the story behind the yes, or the surprised reaction when someone answers the opposite of what everyone expected.

What do players say?

58%

of players said Yes
12 responses

Based on 12 answers so far, 58% of players say yes — making this something the majority of players have actually done.

Discussion starters

→ Who in the group is most likely to have had your height marked on a door frame?
→ What's the full story — and who in the group is most surprised by your answer?
→ What family tradition do you secretly hate?
→ Which sibling got away with the most?
→ What is the worst thing you ever broke at home?

Discover the amusing and nostalgic moments behind marking your height on door frames. This question can spark stories about childhood, family traditions, or funny growth attempts. Ready to explore your own stories? Jump into a game of Have You Ever?

What This Question Really Asks

This question uncovers more than just physical growth; it invites stories about family milestones, childhood memories, or quirky rituals. At its core, it’s about the significance of personal or familial traditions. By asking this, you’re delving into themes like accomplishment, nostalgia, or even humorous attempts to measure up. It’s a charming way to connect through shared experiences or curious discoveries about each other’s pasts.

Memories of childhood and adolescence
Family traditions or rituals around growth
Funny or embarrassing growth stories
Different ways people measure success or height
Shared nostalgia that creates bonding moments — explore more categories of questions

How to Use This Question

Setting	Tone	Best for	Tip
Friends game night	Lighthearted & fun	Breaking the ice or for laughs	Encourage sharing funny or unexpected stories — see our group decider for more ideas.
First date	Playful & warm	Building trust and igniting conversations	Use as an opening to share your own story and invite them to do the same.
Team meeting	Casual & engaging	Getting to know colleagues on a personal level	Keep it light, avoid uncomfortable subjects; perhaps compare growth in a humorous way.
Family dinner	Sentimental & warm	Sharing childhood memories	Relate to family traditions or funny stories to foster closeness.
Party	Energetic & playful	Creating laughs and lively conversations	Use it as an icebreaker at casual gatherings for spontaneous stories.

When You Say "Yes"

You have a nostalgic side, cherishing childhood memories.
You’ve kept a tradition alive in your family or among friends.
You enjoy sharing funny or embarrassing stories about yourself or others.
You like tracking growth or achievements in humorous ways.
You’re interested in exploring deeper questions that reveal personal histories or family dynamics.

When You Say "No"

If you haven’t marked your height on a door frame, you might be more practical or uninterested in nostalgic rituals. Or perhaps it just wasn’t a family tradition for you. Either way, that’s perfectly okay — everyone’s story is different.