Have you ever had your parents disapprove of someone you were dating?

Why people ask this

This question works because the yes-or-no split always surprises the room — someone answers in a way nobody expected, and the conversation starts from there. Families tend to circle the same five anecdotes; this question pries loose the story that was about to be retired forever. The yes-or-no format is what makes it work — nobody has to volunteer a story, but once someone says yes the room always wants to hear it. That is why this question comes up again even in groups that have played before: the answer changes, the story changes, and the same question lands differently every time someone new is in the room.

What do players say?

58%

of players said Yes
12 responses

Based on 12 answers so far, 58% of players say yes — making this something the majority of players have actually done.

Discussion starters

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What This Question Really Asks

This question delves into personal stories about familial reactions and the impact they have on relationships. It encourages honesty about boundaries and expectations. By reflecting on your experiences, you can gain insight into how your family’s opinions influence your choices, similar to discussions found in deep and meaningful conversations.

Have you ever faced family opposition when dating someone?
How did that disapproval affect your relationship?
What reasons did your parents give for their disapproval?
Did your relationship change after your parents' opinions? Or did you stand your ground?
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How to Use This Question

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When You Say "Yes"

You often consider your family's feelings over your own choices.
You tend to seek your parents' approval before making big relationship decisions.
You feel guilty or conflicted when your parents disapprove of someone you're dating.
You have experienced a period of family disagreement that affected your relationship.
You believe that family opinions influence who you date or how you view relationships. Discover more about your relationships with deep questions.

When You Say "No"

It's natural to have boundaries when it comes to family opinions. Sometimes, you may choose to prioritize your own happiness or independence over parental approval.

You might have stood your ground and pursued your relationship despite disapproval.
You may have maintained a respectful distance from family opinions.
You could have experienced a period of tension but found a way to reconcile your feelings and family dynamics.

Best Follow-Up Questions

How did your family express their disapproval?
What was the turning point that changed your relationship with your parents?
Do you think their disapproval was justified?
Have you ever had to choose between family approval and your own happiness?
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