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Why people ask this
This question works because the yes-or-no split always surprises the room — someone answers in a way nobody expected, and the conversation starts from there. Work and school questions are popular because everyone has the same bad-meeting and dumb-detention archetypes — recognising them in someone else’s life is the whole point. Have You Ever questions work because they give everyone the same binary entry point — yes or no — and then let the room decide how far to go. A quick nod counts. A ten-minute story also counts. The format never forces anyone to say more than they want to, which is exactly why people do.
What do players say?
14 responses
Based on 14 answers so far, 50% of players say yes — making this an almost even split — roughly half of players have, half have not.
Discussion starters
- → Who in the group is most likely to have successfully negotiated your salary?
- → What's the full story — and who in the group is most surprised by your answer?
- → What is the worst meeting you have ever sat through?
- → What is the dumbest reason you have been in trouble at work or school?
- → What is the strangest job interview you have done?
Ever wondered if you’re a master of negotiation? Exploring classic work questions like this can reveal your confidence and skill in advocating for yourself — especially in moments like salary talks. Playing have.you can spark stories, advice, and laughs about these important milestones.
What This Question Really Asks
This question digs into your experience with negotiating, revealing your comfort level and tactics in discussions about compensation. It’s about more than just the paycheck; it also uncovers your approach to challenges and asserting your worth.
- Whether you've had success in securing better pay or benefits
- How confident you feel discussing money and value
- Your strategies for overcoming hesitation during negotiations
- How prepared you are for salary-related conversations, which you can explore in other question categories
How to Use This Question
| Setting | Tone | Best for | Tip |
|---|---|---|---|
| Friends game night | Playful and lighthearted | Casual conversations about work experiences | Use humor and personal stories to keep it fun, and check out our group decision tools for planning |
| First date | Warm and honest | Getting to know each other's work lives and aspirations | Share your own experiences without bragging, fostering openness |
| Team meeting | Professional but approachable | Building camaraderie and discussing work challenges | Frame it as a learning experience, perhaps referencing other deep questions |
| Family dinner | Supportive and curious | Sharing milestones and challenges | Keep it light; focus on lessons learned and future goals |
| Party | Humorous and lively | Breaking the ice or sparking stories | Incorporate funny anecdotes, and consider building custom questions for the occasion |
When You Say "Yes"
- You feel proud of advocating for yourself and setting boundaries.
- You’ve successfully negotiated a raise or better benefits.
- You believe in fair compensation for your skills and experience.
- You’re comfortable discussing compensation in a professional setting.
- You’ve shared stories about your negotiation wins in funny and embarrassing moments.
When You Say "No"
Not having negotiated your salary doesn’t mean you lack confidence. It can also suggest areas for growth and opportunity to improve your negotiation skills in the future.
- You prefer to focus on your current role rather than salary discussions.
- You’re hesitant or unsure about how to approach negotiations.
- You’ve accepted offers without negotiation in the past.
Best Follow-Up Questions
- What’s the most important factor when negotiating your salary?
- Can you share a time when negotiation didn’t go as planned?
- How do you prepare for a salary discussion?
- What advice would you give someone nervous about negotiating?
- Have you ever regretted not negotiating? Why?
Explore more work and school questions to deepen your conversations and get better at these skills.
Ready to share your experiences? Try our have.you game to keep the conversations flowing, or gather your friends for a multiplayer game night and see who’s the best negotiator!
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