Why people ask this
Relationship questions always land because the honest answer is rarely the one people rehearsed on the way over. Relationship questions cut deeper than people expect because the honest answer is rarely the one rehearsed — and this question rewards honesty. Questions like this one get played across every kind of group on have.you — couples on a first date, coworkers at team events, friends on long drives. Each setting produces a different answer, which is part of why Have You Ever has stayed in circulation long after most party games get retired.
What do players say?
15 responses
Based on 15 answers so far, 60% of players say yes — making this something the majority of players have actually done.
Discussion starters
- → Who in the group is most likely to have had a huge celebrity crush?
- → Be honest — would you tell the whole story, or just the version that makes you look good?
- → When did you last have a real crush?
- → What is the kindest thing an ex did for you?
- → What is something you wish you had said to someone?
Thinking about celebrity crushes can reveal a lot about our interests, aspirations, and the kinds of personalities we admire most. Exploring this question can lead to fun stories and surprising revelations in your next game session.
What This Question Really Asks
This question digs into your biggest celebrity infatuations and what they say about your personal tastes or fantasies. It can uncover your ideal type or what qualities you admire in others. Sometimes, it even sparks shared admiration for popular stars. When you ponder this, you're exploring much more than just a fleeting crush.
- Who, in your mind, stands out among celebrities and why?
- What qualities in this celebrity appeal to you?
- Does your crush reflect a certain ideal or lifestyle?
- Have you ever felt embarrassed about your celebrity crush? Check out our funny and embarrassing category for more laughs.
How to Use This Question
| Setting | Tone | Best for | Tip |
|---|---|---|---|
| Friends game night | Playful and light-hearted | Breaking the ice or sharing laughs | Use this question to remind everyone that crushes are fun and often harmless — check out our classic questions for more options. |
| First date | Sincere and charming | Getting to know each other's tastes | Keep it light to avoid awkwardness and encourage open sharing. |
| Team meeting | Professional but casual | Building camaraderie | Share your own crushes to warm up the room and foster trust. |
| Family dinner | Funny and respectful | Connecting across generations | Find out which stars have universal appeal or generate laughs with surprising picks. |
| Party | Energetic and fun | Boosting party vibe | Encourage everyone to cheer for their favorites and maybe even do impressions or memes! |
When You Say "Yes"
- You admire the celebrity's talent or charisma.
- You’ve imagined dating or hanging out with them.
- You find the celebrity physically attractive or charming.
- You feel inspired by their achievements or personality.
- You’ve ever discussed your crush with a friend or partner, as seen in our deep questions category.
When You Say "No"
That's perfectly okay! Not everyone develops a celebrity crush, or maybe your tastes are more low-key. Some reasons might include:
- You prefer real-life connections over fantasy.
- You don’t follow celebrity gossip or aren’t interested in fame.
- You find the concept of a crush too superficial or fleeting.
Best Follow-Up Questions
- Who was your first celebrity crush?
- If you could have dinner with one celebrity, who would it be?
- Do you think your celebrity crush influenced your taste in movies or music?
- Have you ever met someone who reminded you of your crush?
- What qualities in a celebrity do you most admire? Explore similar themes in our categories.
Want to turn this into a full game? Try starting to play now or bring friends along with multiplayer mode for endless fun!
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