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Have you ever "stalked" your crush's social media profile?
Why people ask this
Relationship questions always land because the honest answer is rarely the one people rehearsed on the way over. Relationship questions cut deeper than people expect because the honest answer is rarely the one rehearsed — and this question rewards honesty. Questions like this one get played across every kind of group on have.you — couples on a first date, coworkers at team events, friends on long drives. Each setting produces a different answer, which is part of why Have You Ever has stayed in circulation long after most party games get retired.
What do players say?
26 responses
Based on 26 answers so far, 73% of players say yes — making this something the majority of players have actually done.
Discussion starters
- → Who in the group is most likely to have "stalked" your crush's social media profile?
- → Be honest — would you tell the whole story, or just the version that makes you look good?
- → When did you last have a real crush?
- → What is the kindest thing an ex did for you?
- → What is something you wish you had said to someone?
Discover what your habits around social media reveal about your feelings and curiosity with this classic relationship question. Curious about how others handle social media crush-stalking? Explore more classic questions that uncover everyday behaviors in relationships.
What This Question Really Asks
This question dives into your tendencies to research or keep tabs on someone you like. It’s not just about social media; it’s a window into your feelings of attraction, curiosity, and perhaps even your boundaries. When you answer, consider whether your actions align with healthy boundaries or if they reveal a desire to understand your crush better. Want to challenge your perceptions? Explore deeper relationship questions to connect on a more meaningful level.
- How comfortable you are with a little harmless lurking online.
- Whether your curiosity indicates genuine interest or insecurity.
- How your social media habits reflect your personality.
- What your actions say about your boundaries in dating.
- Whether you’re open about your social media habits with others.
How to Use This Question
| Setting | Tone | Best for | Tip |
|---|---|---|---|
| Friends game night | Lighthearted, fun | Breaking the ice about crushes | Use humor to keep the mood playful — learn the rules to keep everyone comfortable. |
| First date | Playful, flirty | Getting to know each other's social media habits | Share your own stories about social media stalking to create trust. |
| Team meeting | Professional but relaxed | Building rapport and understanding personalities | Keep it light — this isn't a deep dive but a fun conversation starter. |
| Family dinner | Casual, curious | Talking about modern dating behaviors | Frame it as a common thing; many people do it! |
| Party | Exciting, slightly mischievous | Sharing funny or embarrassing social media stories | Be mindful of privacy issues—laughs are better when everyone feels comfortable. |
When You Say "Yes"
- You’re curious about your crush's life beyond what they share publicly.
- You secretly enjoy feeling connected to someone you like.
- You might be a little insecure about their feelings for you.
- You’re comfortable stalking profiles to boost your confidence or understand them better.
- You’re open to sharing your social media habits or stories with others. Want to explore more about yourself? Take a look at other questions in this category.
When You Say "No"
That’s totally fine! Not everyone feels comfortable researching their crush online. Remember, respecting privacy is key in building healthy relationships.
- You prefer to get to know someone in person instead of online
- You value boundaries and privacy in your relationships
- You might avoid the temptation to stalk social media out of respect
Best Follow-Up Questions
- Do you think social media can tell you everything about a person?
- How do you feel about sharing your own social media with someone you're interested in?
- Have you ever been surprised by what you found on someone’s profile?
- What’s your go-to way of learning more about someone: social media or chatting?
- Do you think stalking social media is harmless or invasive? Why?
Looking for more ways to spark meaningful conversations? Check out our relationship questions category for endless inspiration.
Tip: Want to keep your game fun and engaging? Try starting a game of Have You Ever with friends or loved ones. For group settings, consider using our group decider tool to select the perfect question for everyone involved.
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