Is this for skeptics or believers?

Both — many questions are framed as "have you experienced X" rather than "do you believe X", so skeptics still have plenty to answer.

Will it actually scare people?

Less than a horror movie, more than a true-crime podcast. The scariest part is usually someone else's answer.

Good for kids at a sleepover?

Older kids yes, younger kids be careful — some questions touch on death and break-ins.

Scary & Paranormal

Have you ever visited a "dark tourism" site, like a former prison or battlefield?

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Why people ask this

This question works because the yes-or-no split always surprises the room — someone answers in a way nobody expected, and the conversation starts from there. Scary questions get traction because everyone wants to know if their weird experience was unique or universal — usually it is more universal than they thought. Questions like this one get played across every kind of group on have.you — couples on a first date, coworkers at team events, friends on long drives. Each setting produces a different answer, which is part of why Have You Ever has stayed in circulation long after most party games get retired.

What do players say?

62%

of players said Yes
8 responses

Based on 8 answers so far, 62% of players say yes — making this something the majority of players have actually done.

Discussion starters

→ Who in the group is most likely to have visited a "dark tourism" site, like a former prison or battlefield?
→ What's the full story — and who in the group is most surprised by your answer?
→ What is the closest you have come to seeing a ghost?
→ What place have you been that genuinely felt wrong?
→ What is the scariest dream you remember?

Curious about the eerie and haunting places you've explored? This dark tourism question uncovers your adventurous side and reveals stories behind your visits to sites like abandoned prisons or historic battlefields.

What This Question Really Asks

This question digs into your personal experiences with sites that carry a history of tragedy, violence, or tragedy. It helps uncover how you perceive and connect with darker aspects of history and human experience. By reflecting on these visits, you'll gather insights into your curiosity, fears, and respect for the past.

Have you ever explored a place known for its tragic history?
Do you feel drawn to sites with a dark past for the thrill or learning?
Are you comfortable visiting places that evoke fear or sadness?
Have such visits changed your perspective on history?

How to Use This Question

Setting	Tone	Best for	Tip
Friends game night	Intriguing and thoughtful	Getting to know adventurous friends	Use this question to spark stories and shared experiences; check out group decider to pick what to ask next.
First date	Curious and respectful	Learning about each other's boundaries and interests	Keep the tone light but genuine; avoid judgment and listen carefully.
Team meeting	Thought-provoking	Fostering deeper conversations among colleagues	Pick questions that encourage sharing without making anyone uncomfortable.
Family dinner	Reflective and respectful	Discussing history and personal experiences	Share your own story to open the conversation comfortably.
Party	Exciting and daring	Breaking the ice with unique stories	Use it as a fun challenge, but be mindful of others' comfort levels.

When You Say "Yes"

You have a taste for history with a darker twist.
You find thrill and learning go hand-in-hand in haunted or historic sites.
It shows you're open to confronting fears and exploring what lies beneath the surface.
You enjoy stories of tragedy, redemption, and the human stories etched into these locations.
You're eager to share your own experiences or hear others' adventures at classic or less conventional sites.

When You Say "No"

Saying no indicates a preference to avoid potentially discomforting or unsettling experiences. It's perfectly normal, and your boundaries are valid.

You prefer lighter, more uplifting activities.
You might be sensitive to dark themes or past tragedies.
You're less interested in exploring locations with heavy emotional baggage.

Best Follow-Up Questions

What was the most fascinating thing you learned about that site?
Would you visit another dark tourism site again?
Have you ever had a spooky experience there?
What draws you to explore these kinds of places?
How do you feel after visiting such a site — inspired, scared, reflective?

Looking for more ways to spark meaningful conversations? Explore our categories for ideas or try the icebreaker generator for fresh questions.

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