Have you ever made up an excuse to get out of a social event?

Why people ask this

This question works because the yes-or-no split always surprises the room — someone answers in a way nobody expected, and the conversation starts from there. This question travels because secrets are heavy and the urge to put one down — even just into a game — is stronger than most people admit. The yes-or-no format is what makes it work — nobody has to volunteer a story, but once someone says yes the room always wants to hear it. That is why this question comes up again even in groups that have played before: the answer changes, the story changes, and the same question lands differently every time someone new is in the room.

What do players say?

73%

of players said Yes
11 responses

Based on 11 answers so far, 73% of players say yes — making this something the majority of players have actually done.

Discussion starters

→ Who in the group is most likely to have made up an excuse to get out of a social event?
→ What's the full story — and who in the group is most surprised by your answer?
→ What is the longest you have kept a secret?
→ What is one lie you tell to keep the peace?
→ What is something you have done that nobody in this room knows?

Ever found yourself concocting a little white lie to skip a social gathering? This question peels back the masks we wear and reveals some playful—or possibly sneaky—moments. It’s a fun way to share stories and bond over those secret excuses. Dive into more questions about secrets and lies to uncover surprising truths about your friends and family.

What This Question Really Asks

This question delves into the creative and sometimes humorous ways we avoid social obligations. It’s not just about the excuse itself, but what it says about your personality and social comfort. You might reveal thoughts on honesty, social anxiety, or just a mischievous sense of humor. For deeper insights into personal stories, explore meaningful questions that invite sharing on a more profound level.

It asks whether you’re comfortable being honest about your reasons for skipping social events.
It explores your creativity in making up believable excuses.
It hints at your social habits and how you handle peer pressure or commitments.
It can reveal moments of awkwardness, embarrassment, or cleverness in social situations.
It uncovers stories that might become funny anecdotes, especially when sharing with friends who love a good secret.

How to Use This Question

Setting	Tone	Best for	Tip
Friends game night	Playful, teasing	Casual group fun	Encourage honesty with lighthearted prompts (use a group decider) to keep everyone relaxed.
First date	Honest and gentle	Getting to know each other	Share amusing excuses to build rapport; avoid making it too personal.
Team meeting	Professional but friendly	Icebreaker or team-building	Use it to lighten the mood; consider icebreaker questions for smoother introductions.
Family dinner	Casual, warm	Family bonding	Keep it humorous rather than revealing secrets that might cause confusion or concern.
Party	Fun, mischievous	Party games	Use as a fun prompt to spark stories, especially when discussing funny moments.

When You Say "Yes"

You’re comfortable telling a little fib to save face or avoid discomfort.
You see making excuses as a way to maintain social harmony without confrontation.
You sometimes fear missing out and prefer to stay home, even if it means lying about the reason.
You enjoy sharing amusing stories about fabricated excuses, especially with friends who appreciate a good joke.
You’re likely to have a treasure trove of hilarious or cunning excuses stored away for future use. Check out other question categories to find more fun scenarios.

When You Say "No"

Declining these questions can mean you're straightforward or prefer more honesty in your social interactions. It’s perfectly okay to stick to real reasons instead of fabricating stories. Sometimes, being truthful creates deeper connections and trust with others.