Yes — designed to be. Use it for off-sites, onboarding, and team dinners with confidence.

Will my boss find out something?

Only what you tell them. The skip button exists for a reason.

Good for school reunions?

Excellent — half the questions are about school disasters and the answers age beautifully.

Work & School

Have you ever had to give a presentation and been terrified?

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Why people ask this

Fear questions reveal something real: what people are scared of tells you more about them than what they are proud of. Work and school questions are popular because everyone has the same bad-meeting and dumb-detention archetypes — recognising them in someone else’s life is the whole point. What makes this format durable is that a no can be just as interesting as a yes. 'No, but I once…' or 'No, and here is why not' opens a conversation the question never directly asked for. The best sessions are ones where the follow-up runs longer than the question itself.

What do players say?

64%

of players said Yes
14 responses

Based on 14 answers so far, 64% of players say yes — making this something the majority of players have actually done.

Discussion starters

→ Who in the group is most likely to have had to give a presentation and been terrified?
→ How did you react in the moment — and does it still get to you today?
→ What is the worst meeting you have ever sat through?
→ What is the dumbest reason you have been in trouble at work or school?
→ What is the strangest job interview you have done?

Giving a presentation can be nerve-wracking, but it’s also a common experience in both work and school. This question helps you explore those moments of vulnerability and courage. Want to get to know your colleagues or classmates better? Check out our classic questions for more everyday conversations.

What This Question Really Asks

This question delves into your experiences with public speaking and personal anxiety. It reveals how you handle pressure and whether you’ve faced fears head-on. It’s a great way to share stories about overcoming nerves or the funny mishaps that happen during presentations. Think about moments when you felt embarrassed or awkward. Want a deeper understanding? It can also spark conversations about confidence and self-improvement.

Have you experienced stage fright or nervousness?
How do you typically prepare for important presentations?
What funny or embarrassing moments have you had?
Have you ever surprised yourself by handling a tough audience?
Would you consider yourself a confident speaker or still learning? Explore more deep topics.

How to Use This Question

Setting	Tone	Best for	Tip
Friends game night	Light-hearted, encouraging	Casual conversations, laughs	Keep it fun and dismiss nerves—share funny stories to make it easier.
First date	Warm, genuine	Building trust, opening up	Show empathy and listen to their story
Team meeting	Supportive, professional	Team bonding, understanding strengths	Use it as an icebreaker to reduce overall anxiety
Family dinner	Casual, familiar	Sharing personal experiences	Encourage openness to foster family connection
Party	Playful, relaxed	Entertainment, storytelling	Use as a fun round to break the ice with strangers

When You Say "Yes"

You’ve faced a high-pressure situation and made it through.
You’re comfortable sharing your feelings or nervous moments.
You realize that everyone has felt anxious about public speaking.
You see your past fears as growth opportunities.
You’re willing to help others overcome their fears, perhaps by sharing your story about overcoming challenges.

When You Say "No"

Not everyone has had to face the spotlight yet, and that’s perfectly okay. Sometimes, nerves are strong enough to make you avoid public speaking altogether.

You’ve never been in a situation that required a presentation.
Public speaking makes you extremely anxious or uncomfortable.
You prefer one-on-one conversations over group settings.

Best Follow-Up Questions

What strategies help you calm your nerves before speaking?
Can you remember a presentation you nailed despite feeling scared?
Have you ever laughed at yourself during a presentation?
What advice would you give to someone terrified of public speaking?
Would you like to practice your skills with some icebreaker prompts? Explore more in our question categories.