Does it get awkward about income?

No — questions focus on purchases and habits, not how much anyone earns. Nobody has to disclose numbers.

Mostly yes. Skip a couple of "biggest debt regret" questions if you are using this with colleagues.

Will it depress people?

Surprisingly no — the regret stories tend to be funny rather than sad. Bad-purchase confessions are universal.

Money & Shopping

Have you ever had to borrow money from your parents as an adult?

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Why people ask this

This question works because the yes-or-no split always surprises the room — someone answers in a way nobody expected, and the conversation starts from there. Money is the topic everyone pretends not to care about and then answers fastest — questions like this make the regrettable purchases come out. On have.you, this question draws players from every kind of setting — parties, road trips, dinners, late-night calls — which is why the same question reads differently every time. The interesting part is rarely the answer itself; it is the follow-up, the story behind the yes, or the surprised reaction when someone answers the opposite of what everyone expected.

What do players say?

67%

of players said Yes
15 responses

Based on 15 answers so far, 67% of players say yes — making this something the majority of players have actually done.

Discussion starters

→ Who in the group is most likely to have had to borrow money from your parents as an adult?
→ What's the full story — and who in the group is most surprised by your answer?
→ What is the most expensive thing you have ever returned?
→ What do you spend more on than you should?
→ What item do you regret buying the most?

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where borrowing money from your parents as an adult was the only option? This question can reveal a lot about your relationship with money and family dynamics. If you’re curious about exploring more classic or everyday questions, this is a great one to start with. Dive in, share your story, and see what others have experienced.

What This Question Really Asks

This question unpacks how comfortable you are asking for financial help from family members and how you handle situations involving money. It opens up conversations about dependence, independence, and trust. The question also touches on your attitudes towards borrowing and lending, especially with those closest to you. For deeper insights into personal finance and relationships, check out our deep and meaningful questions.

Whether you’re comfortable asking for financial help from your parents.
How financial independence has been achieved over time.
Your feelings about borrowing money from family members versus friends or institutions.
The level of financial support you receive from family and how it influences your independence.
Potential stories about funny or awkward moments during such lendings, as seen in funny and embarrassing questions.

How to Use This Question

Setting	Tone	Best for	Tip
Friends game night	Light-hearted, humorous	Getting to know each other better	Encourage openness by sharing your own borrowing stories using a group decider.
First date	Casual, respectful	Breaking the ice about financial backgrounds	Use this question to gently explore perspectives on money while keeping it fun.
Team meeting	Professional, sincere	Understanding team members’ financial situations	Frame the question to promote trust and openness within the group.
Family dinner	Supportive, empathetic	Discussing financial struggles	Be sensitive to responses and avoid judgment exploring other topics.
Party	Relaxed, fun	Switching to personal stories	Lighten the mood with a humorous approach to borrowing stories.

When You Say "Yes"

You’re comfortable admitting you’ve needed help in tough financial times.
You value the support and trust your parents put in you.
You see borrowing from family as a temporary solution, not a reliance.
You feel grateful for the help, but also strive for independence.
It indicates a close relationship with your parents or family members, as highlighted in classic questions.

When You Say "No"

Saying no might suggest independence or a desire to manage finances on your own. It can also reflect boundaries, pride, or comfort in managing money without family assistance. Some common reasons include:

You prefer to handle your financial matters without family involvement.
You view borrowing from parents as a last resort or an undesirable option.
You take pride in sustaining yourself financially.

Best Follow-Up Questions

How did you feel asking or declining to ask for help?
What was the reason you needed to borrow money, if you did?
How has your relationship with your parents changed over money matters?
Have your views on borrowing from family evolved over time?
Would you ever consider building a custom question set about personal finance?

Thinking about turning this into a fun game? Try starting your own game now or invite friends to join the multiplayer experience for even more laughs and surprises!

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