Does it get awkward about income?

No — questions focus on purchases and habits, not how much anyone earns. Nobody has to disclose numbers.

Mostly yes. Skip a couple of "biggest debt regret" questions if you are using this with colleagues.

Will it depress people?

Surprisingly no — the regret stories tend to be funny rather than sad. Bad-purchase confessions are universal.

Money & Shopping

Have you ever splurged on a meal at a Michelin-starred or very fancy restaurant?

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Why people ask this

This question works because the yes-or-no split always surprises the room — someone answers in a way nobody expected, and the conversation starts from there. Money is the topic everyone pretends not to care about and then answers fastest — questions like this make the regrettable purchases come out. On have.you, this question draws players from every kind of setting — parties, road trips, dinners, late-night calls — which is why the same question reads differently every time. The interesting part is rarely the answer itself; it is the follow-up, the story behind the yes, or the surprised reaction when someone answers the opposite of what everyone expected.

What do players say?

25%

of players said Yes
12 responses

Based on 12 answers so far, 25% of players say yes — making this less common than most people assume.

Discussion starters

→ Who in the group is most likely to have splurged on a meal at a Michelin-starred or very fancy restaurant?
→ What's the full story — and who in the group is most surprised by your answer?
→ What is the most expensive thing you have ever returned?
→ What do you spend more on than you should?
→ What item do you regret buying the most?

Indulging in a lavish meal at a Michelin-starred or upscale restaurant can be a memorable experience. This question uncovers your moments of splurge and what prompted them. Curious? Explore more classic questions about life’s little luxuries and habits.

What This Question Really Asks

This question digs into your willingness to indulge and treat yourself to high-end dining experiences. It’s about more than just the meal — it reveals your approach to luxury, budgeting, and memorable moments. When you’re asked about splurging on fancy food, it’s often a window into your values and what you prioritize.

Whether you’re comfortable spending on extravagances
The occasions that lead you to indulge
How often you treat yourself to fine dining
Your most memorable or embarrassing experiences at such places
What makes a restaurant worth its high price tag and how you justify it

How to Use This Question

Setting	Tone	Best for	Tip
Friends game night	Light-hearted, playful	Sharing funny or extravagant stories	Encourage honesty to keep the mood fun and engaging
First date	Romantic, intriguing	Building connection and revealing personal tastes	Use to ask about memorable experiences or dream meals as icebreakers
Team meeting	Informative, casual	Getting to know colleagues or clients better	Bring a relaxed tone to foster openness and storytelling
Family dinner	Warm, nostalgic	Sharing cherished moments	Focus on family traditions related to special meals
Party	Festive, spirited	Creating lively conversations and laughs	Use as a fun conversation starter to get people talking about their favorite splurges

When You Say "Yes"

You love treating yourself occasionally, especially on special occasions.
You enjoy trying new culinary experiences and discovering unique flavors.
It shows you’re willing to prioritize quality over cost for memorable moments.
You believe that splurging on food can be a form of self-care or celebration.
Sometimes, these experiences lead to incredible stories or lifelong memories, like an embarrassing dining story.

When You Say "No"

Saying no indicates a more budget-conscious or pragmatic approach to dining. You might prefer to stay within your means, or simply find splurging unnecessary. It can also reflect personal values around frugality or simplicity.

You prefer homemade meals or casual eateries over fine dining.
Splurging feels like an unnecessary expense to you.
You associate high costs with pretension or unnecessary excess.

Best Follow-Up Questions

What’s the most luxurious meal you’ve ever had?
Do you believe dining out is worth the extra cost?
What’s your dream restaurant to visit someday?
Have you ever had a funny or embarrassing experience at a fancy restaurant?
How do you decide when to splurge or save?

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